Bethany Joy Lenz Recalled the Midnight Call From James Van Der Beek’s Wife — ‘While Millions Were Asleep, I Lost a Brother’

In recent years, Lenz herself has faced profound personal challenges that forced her to reassess life, fame, and family. Long before this late-night phone call, she had opened up candidly about her decade-long involvement in a high-control religious group she has described as a “cult,” an experience she detailed in her memoir Dinner for Vampires: Life on a Cult TV Show (While Also in an Actual Cult!). During that period, Lenz said she was deeply committed to the group’s leader and his teachings — a situation that dramatically affected her personal life, career choices, and finances.

Lenz has spoken publicly about losing a significant amount of her One Tree Hill income — reportedly millions of dollars — because of the group’s influence, and she said those losses forced her to start over emotionally and financially. It was only after leaving the group, and later ending a marriage that had grown out of that environment, that she began the real work of rebuilding her life on her own terms.

Despite these hardships, Lenz’s reflections on her friendships — including those with costars from different shows and eras — reveal a deep appreciation for the people who supported her through both triumphs and pain. Her description of the moment she learned of Van Der Beek’s passing — the blend of shock, wakefulness in the quiet night, and sudden sense of profound loss — underscores just how much these relationships matter behind the scenes of fame.
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